Our time with Matvey was sweet today. Both times we got to the Baby Home he was standing crying on the playground. We thought maybe he was just unhappy about losing a toy, but his caregivers told us he was crying because he thought we may not be coming. And it was heartbreaking to leave him each time as he cries again, trying to climb the fence because he wants to come with us. He does wave and watches us all the way to the car. His caregivers told Oleg today that before we came they were very nervous because Matvey is "selective" in who he chooses to trust. He is sensitive and they believe this is because of his "condition". We are so happy we made the cut!
He is a character...in fact that's what everyone around the Baby Home says, "He is a character boy". It is amazing to see him tackle hard things and see his ability to compensate for his little turned in legs and crooked fingers. We love him so much and can see he is an overcomer! It was fun to see him interact with his friend today. He was even willing to share his toys. It is so hard to see all the children here. They let us go into his room today. Everything is in perfect order and there is a routine, we got good pictures, and even this one of him washing his hands. What a good boy! I'm glad they allowed us to video and take pictures of him room and bed because it will help him have memories of his first home and those who love him here. 
Today we signed the papers saying we intend to adopt Matvey as our son. Very Exciting! Thank you for all your prayers and encouraging posts and emails. It means so much and we are truly blessed by them.Ally for both (including Samuel Matvey)
5 comments:
I am attached too! I look forward to seeing the blog every morning. Samuel is very cute, I am so glad he will part of the Howard 7...you will need to change your email address. God is good. Talk to you soon. Love, Elise
I left a message earlier on the first blog then I discovered what happened. Anyway we appreciate your updating the blog and we're making it a part of our daily ritual. We're convinced that you are angels in "Samuel Matvey's" eyes and heart, it should be easy for him to accept and believe in God as his Savior when he's old enough to understand what has happened for him. I think that you are angels. Share our love with him.
Papa Howard
I'm so excited for you and for Samuel--and for all the Howards at "grandma camp". :) May the attaching continue!
"Praise God from whom all blessings flow";
"How Great Thou Art"...those are the only words I can find.
Niki
What a bittersweet thing - to have him crying for you :) Praying that the Lord will give this little one peace and security even when you have to be apart. And that the time will pass quickly for you to bring him home for always.
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