Monday, September 8, 2008

A Warm Welcome

We arrived in Rostov safely last night and after checking into the hotel we went for our usual "first night" dinner at Micky D's for a burger and a shake. It is not our favorite, but it is good comfort food after a long day of travel.

Our facilitator said he had not visited Samuel while we were gone, but he had called a few times and the caregivers say that when they ask Samuel "where is mama?" he points to the gate. What a smart boy! When they ask "where is papa?" he answers only with a big smile! That made Daddy proud.

We have just come from our second visit with Samuel. Ryan and I had been wondering about how Samuel would respond to seeing us again. Questions like "will he remember us?" and "will he be happy to see us?" were among the most important. Well, we did get the warm welcome we were hoping for. He did remember us and seemed very happy to see us. Relieved may be a better word. As we came around the building at the baby home, there he was charging out to the playground, leading his group of course! We both called out his name and he turned to look and then hesitated for about a second. Very quickly then he came to me and gave a long drawn out hug. Still and quiet, but definitely wanted to be held. He stuck like glue. He was wearing a purplish blue jog suit with bright pink stripes down the sides. His forehead has a big ouchie on it, with a pretty thick scab. His hair is much longer now and wouldn't you know it, they had cut a little chunk out of his "bangs" right where the ouchie is. So he isn't looking his best. We had to laugh. Let's just say he couldn't look any more like a little orphan boy than he did today. That's ok because very soon he will be losing his orphan status! We had lots of fun with him today and got lots of giggles out of our sweet boy. No pictures today for obvious reasons. Maybe tomorrow after court we will post some. He did squirm and cry alot when we left him this evening. Boy was that hard.

We were told by our facilitator that he does not believe there is any way we will get the 10-day waiver. This means we would not leave here until the 22nd (of course then we will go to Moscow for 4-5 days). We wrote a letter, our personal plea, to the judge asking her to waive this waiting period. And we told our facilitator we are praying and we have many at home praying. He smiled and said "I don't know maybe something will happen in the Heavens". So please continue to pray. We have been told the judge is in a good mood and is pleased with our paperwork. But, she wants to know why we want another child since we already have 4 at home. She has searched our dossier and cannot find our reason. It is so uncommon for families to have more than 2 children in Russia. Pray for grace as we attempt to answer that one face to face. She also will want to know why we school our children at home. She will probably not accept Deuteronomy 6 as an answer.

We are confident God is Sovereign over court decisions and He is more than able to move our judge to make this decision. His days in the orphanage have already been numbered. Please pray that we would be accepting of God's plan instead of getting stuck on our own. Those of you who like specifics, our court hearing is at 10am Tues. morning our time, and that's 11pm Monday night your time.

Lots of love from Rostov!

10 comments:

Scott said...

Dear Ally and Ryan,

Thank God that you are safe and that Samuel was so happy to see you. What a huge blessing. I am sorry to hear that you might have to stay longer, but I trust that God knows what He is doing. I have to let you know that we just got the video on Saturday and I cried my eyes out while watching it. My kids all asked me what was wrong and all I could say was, "Mommy is just so sad for all those babies with no Moms and Dads..." Samuel is absolutely just precious and we can't wait to meet him. Keep us updated. We love to read about what is going on in Russia! We will pray for a softening of the judge's heart.

We love you!
The Floyds

Elise said...

I am so glad to hear that your first day with Samuel went so well. I am continuing to pray that the judge will waive the waiting period. But if not, then we know He has His reasons for having you stay longer. Love you to guys! Elise

emily hope said...

We have been praying - and will continue, tonight especially, for "something to happen in the heavens"!
And that Samuel will soon be free of purple and pink jogging suits FOREVER :)

Anonymous said...

Glad to hear you made it there safe. And that you are already enjoying spending time with Samuel.
We are praying that the judge would grant you the 10 day waiver. Blessing to you guys! Tamra G.

Annie said...

Thanks for keeping us updated--we're praying for you there, the family here. Neta

Anonymous said...

Glad to hear that you were happily recieved by Samuel. We'll be praying tonight that the judge will recognize the passion that you have for God's children and the love that you have to share with Samuel. The outpouring of love from your family and friends is a testamony to God's grace. We're so proud to be part of your family. We love you. Papa and Grandma Howard

candice said...

Hey, I just sent out a call for prayer- so let's just wait and watch for something to "happen in the heavens!" as Oleg would put it. We are so glad that you are safe and that he knows his mommy and daddy are back for him! We will be waiting to hear the news- like you said God already knows exactly how many days in the orphanage he has, and we must all wait patiently to see how many that is!
I'm hoping to see him in some of those new clothes you brought for him- we had quite a laugh about the purple and pink sweatsuit!
Love you!!!

Anonymous said...

Blessings from the John Family! We are praying each day and will be tonight at our time 11pm. His warm reception of you is an answer to prayer. In fact, you're just being there at all right now is the culmination of many answers to prayer. I saw Taylor at church on Sunday and got the low down on when he had talked to you and where you were at the time.

Ryan, Dan & I will be praying over you and missing your presence on Wednesday morning. You probably don't need a reminder, but I'm going to give it anyways....Don't forget to find some time in the Word, time with your creator!

All our love,

Jeff, Carrie, Emily, Claire & Dylan.

Anonymous said...

Thanks for the email this morning. It was good to read the news that Samuel is yours to keep and my heart broke for the extra time that you have to be away from the kids. I'm sending notes to them today via regular mail.
We'll look forward to the next posting and we are proud grandparents again. We love you both so much.
Papa and Grandma Howard

Michelle Krueger said...

Hi Howards- Praying for you guys!! May God's will be done. Love, The Kruegers